How to Avoid a Bad Marriage



Suggestions to Avoid a Bad Relationship/Marriage

The Drinking a Lot of  Alcohol Routine
If you notice your partner drinking a lot of alcohol before you marry this won't change after you are married and might and will get worse after marriage. This can lead to drinking and driving and other not-so-nice behaviors coming from the drinker. But remember, if you expect your partner not to do this then you also should not do it. Never expect your partner to do better than what you are doing. But if you are the better one surely you can expect better from your partner then.

Know What To Do and When To Do It
If you are in a relationship before you marry or after you marry a partner who drinks a lot of alcohol and stays with friends all night and he or she never feels sorry or feels that this is wrong behavior then immediately you know you are in a bad relationship and or have married the wrong person. Because that person cares more about drinking with friends than having a wife and a child and coming home to them without being drunk.

Love Bombing Signals
If a person is all nice and love bombs you before you marry them then most likely they will change after marriage into the negative because only the narcissists use love bombing. You can look up love bombing and narcissism on YouTube and there are many videos on that subject.

Marriage Material
The bottom line is not everyone is marriage material because they can either be a narcissist or they didn't grow up in a household where they have learned to be a better person due to either abuse or the absence of one parent. If you are in a relationship or marriage with either an alcohol problem or a lack of empathy problem due to the reasons described above then you can pray a lot to make things better for you or leave the marriage if you feel that the marriage was built on falseness, narcissism, and lies and narcissism encompasses all three of these. If the case is narcissism and you have tried to forgive many times then leaving is the best choice. But make sure to pray all the time while you are doing this.

Prayer
If you pray before and after you start a relationship and also take your time finding a life partner and look out for these signs mentioned then you can find someone who is marriage material if marriage is your goal in life. And remember, marriage comes with children and if you don't want children and you prefer partying with friends then you really should not get married.

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